Advice & Help For A Foot Fetish Guy
(Posted on Monday, April 29, 2002)
This story was submitted by sandallover@webtv.net.

Webmaster's NOTE: Evidently, advice and help was asked of a fellow foot fetishist who was kind enough to offer it to the surfer above. He tells us, "This technique REALLY works.  Please print my email adress for repsonses and succes stories."

Follow-up from sandallover@webtv.net: "As a follow-up to my letter to Jeff.  The webmaster emphasizes a very important point I forgot to mention (see below).  If you encounter ANY resistance whatsoever, politely withdraw. Only proceed where you are willingly accepted. What I have discovered is that there are many, many women who will accept you, so don't bother with those who are the least bit hesitant. Be in control at all times and be nice and you will get what you want. You want to stack the deck as much as you can in your favor though by only approaching those women who meet the profile since they are the most likely to be receptive to you. It is unlikely that a woman who wears bare, strappy sandals, paints her toes, wears ankle bracelets and toe rings is NOT into feet in some way and its been my experience they are into it in  BIG  way. So have fun."

Webmaster clarification: Thanks to Sandallover, as his follow-up is important. I just wanted to clarify that none of us should ever make the assumption that all women who, "...wears bare, strappy sandals, paints her toes, wears ankle bracelets and toe rings..." are into feet in a big way or even a little. Then again, this has apparently been Sandallover's experience and he does use the word, "unlikely," which does clarify his opinion. Frankly, I believe on the whole that he is correct, but we still need to exercise caution and be respectful, which of course should be a given.

Assuming that all women who fit Sandallover's description above are into feet, though, is a little like saying that any woman who wears revealing clothing and smiles at you wants you to have sex with them. Too many times we men, as a group, make assumptions that are patently false, especially when it comes to our fetish for feet. Our foot fetishism can blind us to the facts. The fact is, despite the care that a lot of women give to their feet, very few women actually have foot fetishes. Foot fetishism is generally a male fetish, as are most fetishes. And too many times we men, generally speaking, cross the line and end up doing something that is not only offensive, but also illegal. I think that Sandallover's points should be well taken. Furthermore, with eyes wide open of course, his suggested course of action is good advice. Be safe, sane and consensual, and by all means, have lots of great foot fetish fun!  :-)

Two other things to note: There are of course women in the word who do have foot fetishes. Even for those who don't, there are plenty of women who clearly appreciate and even crave the attention that we foot fetishists give to their feet. Also, despite what I believe to be accurate views about the lines that can be crossed when we pursue our foot fetish dreams, my opinion is just that, my opinion. Right or wrong, everyone is entitled to their opinions. The exception to that of course is when we act upon our own opinions and do it illegally, such as sexually harassing a woman even when we have no intentions of doing that. So let's be careful people. Let's have lots of great foot fetish fun, of course, but let's do it with the respect that women deserve.

So there you have it. Following is the advice and help that was given by sandallover:

Hi,

Well, today is your lucky day. I will give you a simple technique to get all the women's feet you want, but you have to promise to tell me how you are doing and your succsses. OK?

To make a long story short, I also have had a foot fetish since around age 5 or 6. I remember looking at girls feet in the neighborhood while playing, but REALLY started me was my aunt who  loved to have her feet tickled and loved to play shoe store cause her huband was a shoe salesman and also had a foot fetish.  I loved to stay over night at my cousins house who had 3 sisters who had gorgeous feet. I loved to kiss and smell their feet while they slept especially my aunt.  I also loved
to snif their shoes and cum in them

As I got into high school, I loved to go into the library when the weather got warm and look at girls feet and hope they'd slip their shoes or sandals off.

Then when I went to college, I got a job as a shoe salesman in a fancy shoe store and as luck would have it, selling foot care products over the phone at night. I talked to a  lot of  women about their shoes and their feet. I found that it really turned me on to talk to women about their feet, especially over the phone cause they couldn't see how turned on I was. I also noticed in the shoe store when I was selling sandals that some women like to wear very bare sandals, painted their toe
nails and some liked ankle bracelets and even toe rings. I began to compliment them about them and usually got a favorable reaction.

Then I started to ask the women over the phone if they painted their toes or
liked bares sandals, ankle braceles and toe rings.  If they responded favorably I would get bolder and ask if they liked having their feet rubbed. To my surprise most say yes. When I asked who did it, they usually said their husband or boy friend. Some would even volunteer that their boy friends or husbands had a foot fetish and like to kiss their feet and suck their toes. Eventually I got pretty good at
getting women to talk about their husbands or boyfriends and what they liked to
do to their feet as I frantically jerked off.

I soon began to see a pattern forming. Women who wore ankle bracelets usually liked having their feet rubbed. If they also wore a toe ring they liked having their feet kissed and if they wore both and painted their toes, but not their fingers, they usually loved having their toes sucked too.

After a while when a customer came into the store who painted her toes but not her fingers, wore an ankle bracelet AND  a toe ring, I found I could openly compliment them on their feet and openly fondle them. Over the phone if they fit that profile I could get very sexual w/them even to the point of telling them they were making me hot and my dick was getting hard.  I then told them I had a foot fetish.

But the big question remained. Could I pick up strangers w/nice feet who fit the profile. When I saw a woman in public w/nice feet wearing sexy sandals , painted toes and not fingers, ankle bracelets and toe rings I knew from experience she loved having her feet kissed and toes sucked. Now how do I get to do it?

I started reading about body language and how we give each other non-verbal clues. We all want to be comfortable with others, but most people are hesitant in public w/strangers.  But if we have something in common or are similar to each other we feel more comfortable or if we behave in a way that seems open to the person.

First of all, you have to look your best. Then go to places where young women congregate, say the mall, movies, department stores, certain sposrting events, the library etc. Look at their feet and see if they are wearing sandals, their toes
are painted, they have ankle bracelets on and/or toe rings and most important, their finger nails are not painted (even if they are the other things are very important)  It works better if they are sitting, say on a bench and it is not too conspicuous if you sit next to them.

Smile and start up a conversation about anything, say if they are carrying books, ask where they go to school or some other observation. If they respond, listen to their voice and mimick their speech ie if they talk soft you talk soft, mimmick their breathing and gestures. Then carefully move your leg or foot near their foot and gently touch it as you continue the conversation. Think how much you would love to kiss and smell those feet and suck those toes. Then comment on her sandals
and say how nice they are and that you used to sell shoes. Then ask what brand they are as you move you hand toward her foot to remove her shoe and quickly remove her shoe as you gently brush her foot before she has a chance to object.

Look at the shoe quickly as if checking the brand then offer to put it back on and fondle her foot as you ask: "are you doing anything now?  would you like to see a movie or go to a restaurant?"

She will invariably say yes then when there remove her shoes and offer to rub her feet. It works almost every time. I have many instances where I took a perfect stranger to a movie and in a few minutes was sucking her toes.

Try this techique and let me know how it works.

Good luck, Bob

Webmaster's NOTE: It's important to remember that no matter how you approach someone about your foot fetishism, you need to do so consensually and with respect. You have to remember that our love for feet can oftentimes cloud our judgement, which means that we might be tempted to do something that is not acceptable to others even if we ourselves think that it's okay.